Single Parent Perceptions

Single parenthood is extraordinary and unparalleled. There is an assumption, however that in order for single parents to live their dreams, they must wait until a child grows independent. At this time, the parent’s mind grows weary and physical capabilities can diminish if a healthy diet and exercise is not part of their routine. Sometimes a typecast is mentioned as the reason for seeking help. “I’m a single mother” is mentioned as a stigma and not a simple statement of fact. To think independently may seem more difficult than to simply accept how many in society, family, and friends believe a single parent should live. Independence equals creativity. Assuming a role everyone else feels you should play impedes on your overall growth & individuality so that seeking a holistic health practitioner, a life coach or therapist offers little help if the individual is not willing to let go of those belief systems holding them back from reaching desired results.

“We are all in this together!” This statement is true in that we need each other to remind one another that we are unique. Since we are individuals, experiences are unique. We are one in our attempt to experience life and reach our goals, but the path for each individual is unique and is to be personified based on beliefs and perceptions. If we understood this to be true most of the time we would know to seek help with the intention of us changing our perceptions only. It is a comfort to know that more and more people are realizing their role they play in their own lives & how to what level thoughts are involved. Single parents should devote more time to themselves so that they don't forget their own purpose and how to use perception and belief to their advantage. How we perceive is key to achieving success in life. How we journey is just as important.